Men can be more complicated than women sometimes.
Just need to vent.
And no, I’m not angry lol. Just…frustrated? So there’s this guy I met here in S.Korea. He’s a little older than me (27 to be exact) and has a real 9-5 job doing really important stuff. And I’m a college exchange student, so what interest would he have in me besides having a little fun? Originally all we planned to do was hook up (don’t judge me), and I was totally prepared for him to never talk to me again after we did. But he did…only it’s nothing meaningful. Just “how was your day” and all this other small talk, basically.
But unfortunately I caught feelings. And since he’s older than me I don’t want to drive him away and I don’t want to seem immature. But how do I figure out what he wants? Surely if all he wanted to do was hook up once, then he wouldn’t have contacted me again. And I would have been okay with that! But I mean, every morning he sends me a good morning text but he just asks me about school…I wouldn’t be this confused if he’d just be like “so when’s the next time we hook up?” because then I’d know exactly what he was about.
I make sure that I don’t text him too much, though. I want it to seem like I don’t care either way (everything is so complicated these days ugh).
What do I do. .___. I’m thinking that I’m just going to continue to play along until he cracks and tells me what’s up. But I think I might crack before then, though.